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The house we lived in

The day always began in the hall, even before anyone spoke. Someone crossed it half-awake, slippers dragging lightly, while sunlight slid in through the window and stopped on the floor for a while. A parent sat on the sofa with a cup of tea, not fully present yet, just looking outside. Someone else passed through the hall without sitting, already late, already thinking ahead. The room allowed this no one blocked anyone, no one disturbed anyone. It held movement and stillness at the same time.As the morning grew louder, the hall changed. Bags were dropped near the door. A sister searched for her phone, lifting cushions. A brother leaned against the wall, tying his shoes, listening to half a conversation that wasn’t meant for him. The hall became a crossing point, a place where everyone met briefly before leaving in different directions. It never demanded attention, yet it noticed everyone.By afternoon, the same hall felt empty but not unused. Light shifted slowly across the floor, touching the edge of the table, climbing the wall. The room waited. Sometimes a parent lay down for a short rest, not fully asleep, just existing there. Sometimes the brother spread books on the floor, choosing that space instead of his room, wanting openness without company. The hall allowed people to be alone without being closed off.Evenings brought the house back together. Someone switched on the light before it was completely dark. Tea cups gathered on the table.

 

Conversations overlapped about work, school, something small that happened outside. The hall grew warmer with voices. The same sofa that held silence in the afternoon now held arguments, laughter, tired backs. No one owned the hall, yet everyone belonged to it.The kitchen came alive through sounds before sights. The clatter of vessels, the rhythm of chopping, the smell of food spreading quietly. A parent stood near the counter, cooking without announcing it. Someone else entered just to drink water, stayed longer than planned, started helping without being asked. A curtain hung at the doorway, moving slightly with each entry and exit. Sometimes it stayed open, letting everything spill into the hall. Sometimes it was pulled aside just enough still connected, still visible, but gently separate.That curtain did a lot without anyone noticing. It stopped smoke from wandering too far. It gave privacy when needed. It allowed the kitchen to be busy without feeling exposed.

 

When it moved, it told you someone was inside. When it stayed still, you knew the kitchen was resting.Behind the kitchen, a small passage led to the bathroom and two bedrooms. This was where paths crossed quietly. Someone brushed past with a towel on their shoulder. Someone waited outside the bathroom, leaning against the wall, scrolling on their phone. These moments were ordinary, but they stitched the house together. No one felt rushed, yet no one stayed too long.The bathroom carried everyone’s routine. Early mornings were quick and silent. Afternoons were unplanned. Nights were slow, with water running longer than necessary. Shelves filled gradually, hooks multiplied, mirrors showed different faces at different times. It was a shared place, adjusted again and again without discussion.The parents’ bedroom stayed calm most of the time. The door was often open. Light entered softly and stayed. Conversations happened here that didn’t need an audience. Sometimes someone else entered just to talk, to sit for a while, to borrow comfort. The room never felt closed to others, even when it was private.The brother’s room was active in a different way. Music played low. The door opened and closed often. Friends visited sometimes, sitting on the floor, not needing much space. The room spilled into the passage when it needed to breathe.The sister’s room held quiet concentration. A lamp stayed on late. Books stacked and unstacked. Sometimes she worked with the door closed, sometimes open, choosing connection or separation as she wished. The room listened patiently.The third bedroom changed the most.

 

It became a study space, a guest room, a storage place, sometimes all at once. It adapted without complaint, proving that not every space needs a fixed identity.At night, the house slowed down together. Lights went off one by one. Someone walked through the hall one last time, checking doors, switching off fans. The house settled. It held everyone’s tiredness gently.We never planned how to live like this. The house taught us. Through everyday actions, shared paths, soft boundaries, and shifting meanings, it connected us without forcing us together. We lived inside it, and slowly, it lived inside us.

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